I'm not sure EV's are the anti car guy - car. I've easily put 10k+ into modding/adding/retrofitting things on my manual TDI. Many of them things I could have had from the factory but I was set on 6MT, last (probably) of the diesels, no sunroof because I want to keep the car for a really long time. Those things all speak to the car-guy part of me. I love the Tesla all the same. It leans to the tech part of me that would love some of the Tesla features to be in every car.
Some EV's might make traditional car guys feel that anti-car guys are coming into their hobby. But that's only a function of many EV's having car guy levels of performance at everything below 3/10, which is where 90% of driving occurs. A Chevy Bolt does 0-60 in about 6 seconds, same as a 2022 GTI 6MT
. On the street a 5000+ pound Model X will easily/repeatedly gap a huge majority of car guy cars. An EV drivetrain can solve the car guy power/transmission/drivetrain issue in one go. But all the other car guy problems remain, some of them even more difficult to solve... cooling for example.
The addition of carbon ceramic brakes and track mode (which improves cooling and should allow reduction of the nannies) on the plaid should make it a capable, albeit very heavy, car for some track work. A Model 3 Performance with upgraded brakes, adjustable coilovers (and other suspension work) and track mode (or the MPP party box that allows disabling nannies) would be very capable as well. It weights ~260 pounds more than a BMW M3 Xdrive... not nothing but not crazy. I'm not saying the M3P drives like the M3, but there's nothing anti-car guy about setting up a Tesla for track/canyon carving use.
I think the closest you'll get to manual simulation would be if Porsche/Audi let you paddle shift from 1-2 (and back) on the Taycan/E-Tron GT. The second gear for highway driving makes sense intellectually, same concept as an ICE vehicle.
But I think the Plaid/Lucid Air are now making the case that acceleration (even when already going 60+)/highway efficiency (500+ mile range) respectively, don't require a 2(+) speed gear box in an EV. I do realize the Lucid has ~13% larger battery, but with that it has ~28% more range. Why add complexity while also taking away an advantage?