Depends on how low you want to go but 17 or 18 is what you should be looking at. 19s fit but in most peoples opinion they are too big for our platform. When it comes to camber and flared arches -well that all depends on the specs you are looking at getting. Wide wheels with low offset , then yes you will need to dial it in a little otherwise sticking with stickish specks and you won't have to do much , maybe just the fender screw mod. There is a good thread about all this. Regarding ride hight and wheel size.
Regarding the choices you have given for wheels / I'd go for the 3sdm or bbs however neither would be my first choice.
Look through build threads and the "not so slammed" thread to get more ideas. Guessing you are not going air or antiair low so pointless looking at the slammed thread for now.
I got these with M Super Sports. They are a fantastic combination
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