sway bars don't reduce chassis flex.. they increase effective spring rate for the outside wheel when cornering. They should have no bearing on ride.
any increase in spring rate will affect ride compared to stock.
Question is whether you notice the change or not.
I'm pretty sure big bar up front on hard is going to be pretty noticeable in comparison to stock - GTI or R32 (more noticeable in GTI as lighter up front).
Sway bars don't stiffen up chassis but reduce compliance in the suspension (opposite way of you looking at it) = worse ride, esp over one sided bumps.
Small bar on soft may not be so bad. Big bar on hard (then + coilovers) = sore butt on our B-roads.