Shifter feel is very personal and I totally understand why each is preferred. Also, the stock shifter leaves a lot to be desired. I didn't care about the length of the shifts, but I couldn't handle the inherent sponginess/sloppiness.
I personally went through two setups:
1. Neuspeed short-shifter (v similar to S3) + 42DD shifter-bushings + Verdict Sport bracket bushings:
This setup definitely provided a more solid and confident shifter feel, but it was still missing a clear definition of gates. On the upside, this setup feels very OEMplus. You can "glide" into each gear with minimal effort.
2. DieselGeek sigma short-shifter+Verdict-sport bracket bushings:
As others have said, this takes some time getting used to. But once you do, you will love it! I never thought I would love such a notchy shift-feel. You can literally feel every gate as you slot into them with authority. I have absolutely no regrets switching to this setup. Even after the car gets warm, there is no slop in the shift action. Shifts are short, crisp and confident.
Later in my build, I added two more things:
- Raceseng shift-knob: This adds some heft to the top and really helps bring back some of the "glide" action into the shifts. Pairs very well with a notchy shifter like the DG.
- 034 dogbone Billet-insert: This has more to do with the transmission movement/slop than the shift action itself. But, you feel more connected to the chassis on each shift. Love the way it feels. Zero vibrations.
There is no right or wrong setup. And it's actually fun to be able to eventually find that balance through your build