Gunkata
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- Lombard, IL
indeed^, good points.
My mom has also told me stuff similar to GK's feelings. Even though you try to feel the same way about all the kids, it's hard to.
But I think if you only had the stepchild, it might be a little bit easier.
You're just high on oxytocin is the only thing that changed.
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exactly.
if you only have adopted or step, you wont know any difference. But once you add in the bio, it becomes apparent.. I work very hard to try and do my best NOT to differentiate between them/treat them any differently, and of course my wife - to her, they are all her bio kids, lol.
The "goal of starting a family" is the objective, not the motivation, however.
Hey, if you and your other *want* kids and can provide for them, it's all good. The motivation for that decision is secondary, IMO.
it's just different.. even though I didn't want it to be/ was hoping it wouldn't be.
I've been with the twins I adopted since they were about 3 - well, met them then, they moved in with me shortly after turning 5, iirc. They are now 9. I definitely notice that I will have less patience with them on things (perhaps also due to their age currently) than with the bio baby that I have now, that is just over 16months old. I also feel different, in a "natural sense", as far as when I see her, hold her, etc.. she looks like me big time too, of course, lol, so that is probably a big part of it.. but also, you can smell her hair or skin, and it feels very natural.. if I were to do that with the older kids, it may not feel the same.
again.. not what I wanted/hoped, but def some differences in the two.
nope, one boy, one girl... still crazy as fuck.
perhaps.. most of the pics are of the baby.....