thanks, that has largely been my goal. there was one month where she was tracking her ovulation cycle and it was hella stressful, and hard to finish. because your mindset goes from 'hump hump hump' to 'fuck i'm about to be permanently indebted to a poor unlucky child' lmao
Key is to have it be her goal. There’s a hormone that can be secreted in women when they are stressed that prevents conception…. Evolutionary trait or sky daddy something something. It’s the same type of hormone used in many birth control pills for that reason. That “tracking my ovulation, trying so hard because my sister/friend/neighbor/total fucking stranger already has a kid” is what causes the difficulty. Once the stress is gone.m, boop, baby on the way.
Lots of friends went through this, while we said “meh, let’s give it an go” came off the pill and, boop, baby on the way the next month. Same happened for #2. I got my shit snipped ASAP after that kid’s birth. Also there are studies that bring merit to the hypothesis.
And wait till daycare kicks your dick.