just broke it off with the gf

[Si Killer]

we were fighting because she didn't want me to go to parties when she's not around. i told her that's a lack of trust and that she needed to have faith in me. she told me to either choose partying or her and i told her it isn't the partying it's the fact that she's trying to put me on a short leash and control me because she doesn't have faith in me.

was i wrong?

 

[SoNgMaN]

yes you should have just smacked the bitch up

 

[MADgolFER]

^what he said

 

[notkool59]

x3

 

[notkool59]

and then made her make you a sandwich

 

[tranceporter]

x4

 

[RedRabidRabbit]

lol, terrible

I shouldn't say this, but whether or not you're right or wrong is completely dependant on how well she gobbles the knob.

 

[notkool59]

and then if you really cared about her and your relationship try and work through it and fix it to make the relationship stronger. Everyone deals with that trust thing at one or many points in a relationship, it's normal, and so is fighting lol.

 

[DROID_behavior]

looks like you can start posting in the 'real girls' thread..


but in all seriousness, if something as little as going to a few clubs/shows can break you up... it wasn't meant to be

 

[GGERG15]

she's dumb, you're realistic.

 

[ldourlaingti]

Immature. Do you bring her with to some parties? Then she should have nothing to complain about. A man needs his freedom. If you go to 50 parties and never bring her, I can kinda understand. No matter what, still should have smacked a bitch

 

[GTI CANADIAN]

Si Killer shoulda choked the bitch.

Next thing she'll be getting between you and your fast.

 

[MADgolFER]

Si Killer shoulda choked the bitch.

Next thing she'll be getting between you and your fast.

that will never happen because:
1) she will be slapped
2) he drives his mommy's pathfinder
:thumbsup:

 

[Si Killer]

2) he drives his mommy's pathfinder
:thumbsup:

:lol:

i'm having a bad enough day dude

and yes i took her parties

 

[kirk180]

What's right or wrong all depends on your outlook and expectations of what you're looking for in a relationship. If what you want to do differs from what she will allow you to do, and it's important to you...we'll then you did the right thing. She may be insecure, or trust lacking. Either way...if you care enough and think she's the right one for you then you try to help her with the trust issues. And if she's not worth working the the lack of trust and all, well then you let her go.

Personally speaking, I couldn't be with someone who didn't allow me to go hang out without her, or questioned me every minute for it. Just too much kiddie drama for myself. It wouldn't work. My girl doesn't trip about that stuff though. Matter of fact, she typically doesn't even ask me what I did the night before (when I go out with friends) if I don't bring it up first.


You're young right? Run through a few and forget about it. :iono: