Enter @ Own Risk (NSFW)

[GTI2007]

I still have to get some info on that keyless entry system and that start/stop button the MK6 Golf is supposed to get from the second half of 2010

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

i wouldnt like to have that, but its your decision

[GTI2007]

I'm still doubting about it myself

[GTI2007]

It would be pretty cool I guess to start my Golf with that start button like with most of the expensive sportcars. I can't help it but I'm a huge fan of gadgets in a car

[GTI2007]

I'm hating the fact that the Golf R has a multifunction steering wheel standard more

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

boooooooooring

[GTI2007]

Are you boring yourself or what?

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

i had really rough day, and now im learning for tomorrow

[GTI2007]

Then I'm glad I don't have to do any study anymore. Now just to find a better job instead of my boring underpaying current one

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

u had enough time at school to learn for better payed job :wink:

[GTI2007]

They don't want people with my diploma. Here you have to have an A1 in Electronics to get a job and not an A2 like I just have

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

is it hard to get other diploma in belgium? i guess your system is very close to ours. while in UK u can have almost any diploma for just few hundred pounds in a few months. thats not fair

[GTI2007]

It would take me 3 years of evening school

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

ok ... how was your day?

[GTI2007]

Pretty boring. Had nothing betters to do then watch tv or spend time in here cause I'm still a bit too ill to go to work

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

i should take a break from my computer, im spending way too much time on it

[GTI2007]

You're not the only one. I have been on mine since I got up and only been off to have dinner.

[GTI2007]

Just got back from the dentist cause one of my teeth was killing me

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

i should visit my dentist too

[GTI2007]

I should also visit him more often cause now it was almost 2 years ago

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

i dont know if this is what u were talking about, but it looks kinda cool. picture from Passat

http://i.pravda.sk/10/013/skcl/P3930c6c2_7.jpg

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

u still got a key, but instead of turning it to ignite, u push it in like a button

[GTI2007]

According to pics from the premiere on the IAA of Frankfurt the Start/Stop button for the Golf R would look like this:

http://files.vau-max.de/gallery_pictures/2009/09/ab4b8a5176b33358bb6d7dc5b6b583be.jpg
http://files.vau-max.de/images/2009/09/c728cba98ed01229f45a8361451f6091.jpg

No idea if you need a key for it to start or not cause the pic isn't showing it

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

thats fugly, srsly

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

it might look that way because of our daily presence, but everybody is free to join

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

tell us something about yourself for start :biggrin:

[s4mt3k]

hehe interview time

[GTI2007]

I'm going to have dinner now. I'll be back later

[GTI2007]

Why does the TTS has to cost so much more then the Golf R here in Europe?

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

just to be sure that no kid is going to buy it and do street racing :biggrin:

[GTI2007]

Sounds understandable but is that worth a 10k € difference while sharing pretty much the same awd and engine?

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

u know that u are paying for the name, not for the subject

[GTI2007]

Luckely for me I'm a much bigger fan of the Golf R then of the Audi TTS

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

mainly because Golf actually has an useable trunk space :smile:

[GTI2007]

That's so true. The TTS has a maximum trunk space of 700 liters against 1305 liters for the Golf

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

i want this in 4x4 2.0 TDI please:

http://i.pravda.sk/10/021/skcl/P3930f294_1.jpg

http://i.pravda.sk/10/021/skcl/P3930f296_2.jpg

[GTI2007]

if Europe at least get this model

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

why we wouldnt? its just Jetta

[GTI2007]

We probably get the 5 door version here but not so sure about the 3 door version cause that would according to the article be built in Mexico so maybe only for America

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

damn it

[GTI2007]

Maybe if they wouldn't be sold here you could import one and have a unique VW then here in Europe

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

it was advertised with 1.4 TSI engine, which is too small for americans :smile:

[GTI2007]

I read that it's producing 148 HP and is combined with a 27 HP electric motor so totally it makes 175 HP

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

combined with electric huh? finally stepping into that part of industry

[GTI2007]

I still prefer the 2.0 TSI from the Golf R

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

do you participate in that peugeot competition?

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

this (http://ecocup.peugeot.com/GB?utm_source=peugeot_GB_home&utm_medium=banner&utm_term=home&utm_content=ad&utm_campaign=ecocup)is UK site for it, but there are teams from every european country. u choose one of their cars, drive from Paris to Geneve and who gets as far as possible with only one tank of fuel, wins the car he was driving

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

i know Peugeot cars are ugly, but it is great way of getting money

[GTI2007]

Don't think I would be a good candidate for that

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

but i would. But guess what. to participate u need to have your driving license for at least 3 years, which in my case will be 2 weeks AFTER the competition :frown:

[GTI2007]

I guess teams would be with 2 persons from the same country

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

4 ppl from one country, each can take one person on board, whoever they want

[GTI2007]

I have my job so I can't take days off whenever I want

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

u cant tell your boss u are ill?

[GTI2007]

No, I'm tired of my current job but that doesn't mean I'm going to do stuff like that just for some stupid competition

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

FINALLY, took my car out for a ride. first 2km it sounded funny, like something trying to hold the engine on place, but then everything went back to normal. found free parking lot which is actually being used for driving practises and tryed my handbrake, but not much success. maybe because i couldnt go faster then 15km/h because of the size of the parking lot. then i tryed avoiding obstacle with sharply turning my steering wheel and then i gained control again. would be more fun if i would have bunch of friends with me

[GTI2007]

Sounds understandable. It's not much fun doing it on your own

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

ive got a perfect idea for a new topic, it might get catchy over time

[GTI2007]

And what is that so-called perfect idea for a new topic then?

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

take a look into off topic section, u might find out

[GTI2007]

It doesn't look interesting to me

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

u look really depressed in last few weeks, whats going on?

[GTI2007]

It's just that I don't feel like I'm doing the right job right now

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

so its all about your job then

[GTI2007]

I have sollicitated for something else but I have to wait until 15 march before I know the result

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

let us know how it goes

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

http://i.pravda.sk/10/022/skcl/P533116ac_8422689.jpg


awesome

[GTI2007]

What does that supposed to be?

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

thats FYI the new Tuareg

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

and i really like it

[GTI2007]

I don't like it but I'm also not into SUV's at all

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

Tuareg is not an SUV but a JEEP. Tiguan is an SUV

[GTI2007]

A jeep is also an SUV. Both the Tiguan and the Touareg are SUV's

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

there seems to be the difference in my country about these tituls, but it should be the same as u said, regarding to wikipedia

[GTI2007]

To my opinion all those SUV's are way too big and too fuel unefficient because of the bigger engines they need to move their huge amounts of weight

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

then again FYI the new Tuareg in 3.0 TDI version is going to consume about 8l/100km combined, almost 2 litres less then previous Tuareg

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

and there is going to be hybrid version, petrol with electric engines, which will go 0-100km/h in 6 seconds and combined consumption around 7.6 l/100km, plus city driving should be only on electricity

[GTI2007]

I also read that it weighs 200 kgs less the current version

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

yep. VW is doing everything to lead even in that category of vehicles. im looking forward for that pickup

[GTI2007]

Any word on manual gearboxes? cause the current version only has a manual gearbox for the version with the 2.5 TDI engine

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

they say every version is comming with DSG

[GTI2007]

Too bad it's still going to cost way too much

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

i would buy it only if i had spare money. A LOT of spare money

[GTI2007]

I already find my Golf Plus too big for me so I would never go buy a Touareg

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

another reason for me as well. i dont feel comfortable in big vehicle

[GTI2007]

Same counts for me. I would rather go for a Golf or else a Sciroco

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

i want scirroco 4x4 version badly. shame they wont make them

[GTI2007]

I would also have more interest in the Scirocoo if the R had AWD like the Golf R

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

i wonder whats the reason why they wont do it. are they afraid that golf r would be less atractive?

[GTI2007]

Cause it's not a problem with the wheelbase cause the Scirocco and the Golf share the same 2578 mm wheelbase. It's also 5 HP weaker cause the Scirocco R has 265 HP while the Golf R 270 HP

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

im watching some bolywood movie, but the actress in it is so damn hot, i cant stop thinking about her. google lisa ray :smile:
http://mimg.sulekha.com/lisa-ray/Stills/1_lisa-ray-stills02.jpg

[GTI2007]

She's indeed quite cute

[GTI2007]

It's like it was 7 degrees here today when I left my job at 4:30 pm

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

time to resurrect our old thread. how are u bro? whats new

[GTI2007]

Not much. My sister is coming back home this friday so I have to go pick her up from the airport

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

life is getting boring right now

[GTI2007]

I still have to wait until 15 march before I know I can possibly change my life quite a bit

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

i wish u luck with that. im studying for my exams, and my head is about to expload. i hate that

[GTI2007]

Much luck with that. I don't have to work tomorrow cause else I couldn't go pick up my sister

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

been studying for 6 hours in a row, now going to sleep

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

btw, is your sister hot?

[GTI2007]

Not in my opinion cause i'm only attracted to women over 1.70 m while my sister is only 1.58 m

[GTI2007]

Going to start my 14th month on my current job tomorrow

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

finally warmer weather outside, going to do some serious washing this week :thumbup:

[GTI2007]

I have to work tomorrow so no time to wash a car that's not even mine

[mister_duck]

helloooo

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

hi duck. glad to have another member from downunder here. whats the weather like over there?

[GTI2007]

Warmer then here in Europe I guess

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

hey Johan, i have a dilemma. I was invited over for a threesome but im not sure if i should go :smile: im afraid that the over-excitement will cause my primary organ to not function properly (if u know what i mean) :biggrin: what now

[s4mt3k]

i have to get in on this!!! dude, jerk off at home a couple times before you go anywhere! and goooooooooooooo absolutely goooooooooooo (of course as long as it's 2 girls and not 1 girl and 1 guy)

take some booze, a bunch of condoms, and have fun (im jealous).

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

i wasnt expecting anyone else in this thread lately, so i wrote it to Johan straight away. Thanks for your opinion :wink: but after 3rd round im useless :smile:

[turboed]

So no 3 some in your future Boris?

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

thats what is holding me back from doing it. damn it :frown:

[s4mt3k]

i wasnt expecting anyone else in this thread lately, so i wrote it to Johan straight away. Thanks for your opinion :wink: but after 3rd round im useless :smile:

haha sorry, I lurk tho, I try to keep up with you guys but your convos sometime go for days (same topic) and it's weird lol.

anyway, so rub one off @ home, and save 2 for the ladies. one for a bj and one which will take a while after some good humping!!! dude, even if you suck (not literally) at a min you'll have fun watching them.

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

haha sorry, I lurk tho, I try to keep up with you guys but your convos sometime go for days (same topic) and it's weird lol.

thats because we arent online 24/7, so chatting takes few days till we change the subject. trying to be in touch with world :thumbsup:

it will most certainly end up like ultra fail, but hell, i live only once, right?

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

anyways in near future (from 2 - 5 yrs) im planning a trip to usa for a few weeks, it would be sweet to actually know some ppl in there to show me what it is like over there. and mainly to see h2o or something like that. but thats going to happen only after i get my old job back and i will have some spare money...

[s4mt3k]

man, the east coast is loaded with events march - sept (H2O). make it over asap, we'll take care of you

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

it will have to wait, just the flight ticket costs around 500 - 800 euros :biggrin: but thanks for your support. nby this time next year i should have some money to spend. will let you know :smile:

[GTI2007]

I'm also thinking of going to the east coast of America on a vacation somewhere this year

[s4mt3k]

Site hasn't been updated since last year's show and this is towards the end of the summer (cheaper travel?) http://www.h2ointernational.com/

If you want to come earlier, there's a crapload of events, check out this thread:
http://forums.vwvortex.com/zeropost?cmd=tshow&id=4721762

[GTI2007]

I wouldn't like to visit a car show without having my own car there also. I would miss her too much

[GTI2007]

It's good to have the sun shining here but the wind still makes it feel freezing cold

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

its snowing here from yesterday. i want summer now :frown:

[GTI2007]

Here they forecast rain for the next few days

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

im having my first school leaving exams on tuesday and wednesday, and im not studying

[GTI2007]

and why not?

[GTI2007]

It sucks to be bored as hell while being home alone

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

dude, exams are tomorrow and my head is empty. what now?

[s4mt3k]

start studying? and good luck

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

ok, lets get back to business :smile:

[GTI2007]

Cause you studies are more important then this forum ever will be

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

not true, those exams dont mean anything in a real world, its just a formality. and FYI, i did fairly great today :smile: should pass with no problems. today we had exam from my native language, tomorrow is all about english. which in my case is even better then my native. no studying here

[GTI2007]

I really want to go find another job cause my job gets more boring every day

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

i screwed my last exam from english language....

[GTI2007]

That's not good. Do you have to redo it then?

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

no, it wasnt that bad. just the result on my papers will be far from what i wanted. . .

[GTI2007]

I'm glad I don't have to take exams anymore

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

u look quite busy for last few weeks, what are u doing?

[GTI2007]

Not much. It's just the lack of work on my job that ruins most of my days so I'm not in the mood to come online in here very much

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

that sucks. i have a lot of studying to do but i try to come here at least for a few minutes every day. spring finaly came, no more weird engine noises and running on cold with 100000l/100km consumption :smile:

[GTI2007]

It was pretty good here the last few days also. We had it almost 20 degrees here yesterday

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

yep, same here. just a bit of rain this morning

[GTI2007]

Here it was raining yesterday evening and today a very tiny bit. I'm also glad it's weekend again

[GTI2007]

It felt great to be able to sleep for a few more hours then on a normal working day

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

totaly lame weekend, i wonder what is monday going to be like

[GTI2007]

My monday was pretty damn boring with almost nothing to do at work. Was I glad that it was half past 4 so I could go home

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

yep, i know that feeling. this period of my life sucks

[GTI2007]

I have a few days off now and I'm glad I took them

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

dude im so screwed up. few days ago i was kinda desperate so i started over with my ex, and today i got a message from a girl from my school (a girl that i was secretely watching every time she walked by) that she saw me watching her and that she likes me etc. what now???

[GTI2007]

You have to decide who of the 2 you really want I think

[ChelsDS]

Getting back with your ex NEVER works! :P Go for the new girl!

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

but the new girls has 3 more years on college while i am leaving this year and i doubt i will stay close enough

[GTI2007]

If you want to stay with your frigid ex then go for her

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

no i dont :smile: damn it i want the new girl

[GTI2007]

And the fact that she still has to do 3 years of college is keeping you from trying to get together with her?

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

kinda yes, thats the biggest issue. man i was with her whole afternoon talking about everything. she is too good to be true. and beautiful. i dont want to break hearth of that sweet girl. its ironic, that the whole time i say i want a girl to come after me, but when she already does, its too late and my new part of life is about to begin. what am i gonna do now...

[GTI2007]

That's not an easy decision

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

i still havent told her im leaving in two months, she wont even try after that. i feel there will be many sleepless nights in a few months for me... damn it

[GTI2007]

You're going to the UK then for good?

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

not forever, but most certainly for a couple of years. for example after living 10 years in england i will be able to teach english on private language schools back in slovakia, which is a nice idea for my future. there are many possibilities of what i can or i could do in my near future, and its hard to choose the correct one

[Jbaker1121]

hook up with the new girl for a bit then hit up the ex afterwards naaamean

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

u wouldnt want the ex, trust me. i wont repeat myself, it should be written somewhere like 100pages ago that she sucks at sex.

[GTI2007]

Can't you find a decent job there for the time that this new girl has to go to college yet so you could maybe take here with you afterwards if she would want to follow you

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

no way for me to find a decent job here where i live. i still owe that guy for repair . ...
btw, just look at her :smile:
61757

i want her so badly

[GTI2007]

Not an easy decision you have to make for yourself then

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

so the real question seems to be, should i mess with her and hurt her feelings in few months or for her sake ignore her

[GTI2007]

Or you could try to talk about it with her and find out what she thinks about it cause if you really like her and would maybe like to go serious with her then it's important to be honest with her

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

but that would ruin everything, maybe wait till first kiss? i know im weak

[GTI2007]

and dumping her in a few months when you would leave is better then?

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

i was gonna kiss her on our next date, and then few days after that i will tell her eeverything, i promise

[GTI2007]

It's your life. You have to decide over this yourself

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

ok i told her everything, she looked a bit upset. she knew i was going out of country, but she didnt know for how long. she still wants to go out with me, but she is confused. she said she doesnt want to cry in the end, so i guess its not going any further then it curently is. damn it damn it damn it

[GTI2007]

That's the downside of moving away to a better life I guess

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

better life, huh? i honestly dont know, what is worse. having a lot of money but nobody to share them with, or being poor but with love of ur life

[GTI2007]

Tuff decision. That would be a huge dilemma for me also if I was in that kind of situation

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

some good news, she wants to give it a try for those few weeks im here, then dunno. im seriously thinking about changing my whole plans for my future IF she would want me to

[GTI2007]

It wouldn't be a bad idea if you ask me. I personally would rather be poor and happy with the girl I love then rich and unhappy being single instead

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

thats the way i see it, too. im that kind of person that needs to plan everything to be satisfied, and in this case i would have to change realy everything.
It sounds weird, when i talk about it like this, i dont even know her very well, had only few dates and im willing to throw away everything i have just to be with her. I need more time damn it

[s4mt3k]

take your time bro, take your time. even though I knew the girl I was dating was the one I wanna spend my life with, I didn't throw everything away. Fact is, I believe that a good woman, will encourage you to do what you have to do to secure your future and stand by you and help you.

I wouldn't be where I am now if it wasn't for my woman. Patience bro, don't rush, that's how things go bad.

Just my $.02...

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

thanks mate, that helped a lot. no rushing, will see what it turns out like in those few weeks. but it will hurt like hell for sure, when i leave. I can only hope that our lifes will cross again after some time . Today i spent another afternoon with her, ended up watching sun fading far far away. i hope u dont mind me talking here about it :smile: there arent many ppl around that would understand me

[GTI2007]

Got myself a new headunit yesterday. Finally able to use my iPod in my car

[09vdubgti]

lmao complete 180 in topic

[GTI2007]

I'm just happy with my new headunit. Should I have given Boris some more advice on what he needs to do with that girl?

[09vdubgti]

No man your good

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

i think there was enough bawwing for now.
does it mean u bought your own car Johan? or ur talking about golf plus

[GTI2007]

Still the Golf Plus. It's just that the headunit that was in it wasn't that good with cd's cause it got cd error every time I tried to listen to one for like 10 to 15 minutes

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

mine does it all the time, im blaming cheap cds i buy.
i just came home from school, and when i was leaving parking lot i heard glass breaking, turned my head to see my friend rear into another car. dunno why but i started laughing, together with hundred other kids around. im a douchebag

[s4mt3k]

thanks mate, that helped a lot. no rushing, will see what it turns out like in those few weeks. but it will hurt like hell for sure, when i leave. I can only hope that our lifes will cross again after some time . Today i spent another afternoon with her, ended up watching sun fading far far away. i hope u dont mind me talking here about it :smile: there arent many ppl around that would understand me

I don't mind man, not at all

[GTI2007]

I hope to meet my girl soon

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

i hope u meet your girl soon and wont have to leave her after few weeks after that

[GTI2007]

I really hope that also but for now I have nothing else then msn to talk with her

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

come on, save this thread

[GTI2007]

How are you doing this weekend Boris?

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

not well if u ask me. my depression is almost over, but i dont like it. i was happier when i was madly in love, now i feel pity and emptyness. life sucks

[gtiTom]

just reading some of ^^.. do not change your life plans for a girl you've met for a few weeks.

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

but there are too many pros about her :smile:

[gtiTom]

Im in the same boat man, trust me. YOU always want to be in control of your life, not let your emotions for a woman dictate that. unless of course you were dating for several years lmao

[s4mt3k]

ok it's 2 in the afternoon in Tokyo and I'm bored as hell and the forum is dead

[GTI2007]

ok it's 2 in the afternoon in Tokyo and I'm bored as hell and the forum is dead

Why are you in Tokyo?

[s4mt3k]

Why are you in Tokio?

work, gotta visit two sites both pretty far from Tokyo (tomorrow going abt 3hrs, Thursday abt 5hrs) but my co-workers here booked my hotels and I have a few days in Tokyo.

[GTI2007]

That far I have never been for my job

[s4mt3k]

That far I have never been for my job

Been to 45 US States, most of Canada, Carribean, Cyprus, Lebanon, Japan, Australia... I need to start taking trips in Europe.

[GTI2007]

That's true. I haven't been outside of Europe yet myself

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

Im in the same boat man, trust me. YOU always want to be in control of your life, not let your emotions for a woman dictate that. unless of course you were dating for several years lmao

im 21 and still had no serious relationship. i talked to my best friend and i realized that im not thinking at all. im freak. need to calm down. damn it

work, gotta visit two sites both pretty far from Tokyo (tomorrow going abt 3hrs, Thursday abt 5hrs) but my co-workers here booked my hotels and I have a few days in Tokyo.

i envy u, would love to travel for work

[GTI2007]

That's true Boris. You still have more then time enough to find your right girl. Don't worry too much. One day you will find her

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

i wont accept that as an option. will keep finding a way back to her asap. for now, i have to focus on my school leaving oral exams which are scheduled for 25th and 26th of may...

[GTI2007]

What about your plans to move to the UK then?

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

im reconsidering every possibility that might happen, and trying to choose the one where i wont end up with no money and no girlfriend.
might go to england for 6 - 12 months (preferably 6, but that will have terrible effects on my family relationships) and then i wanted to start studying on college, which is final 3rd grade of education in our country. in this case i will have to work while on college, that would leave me with close to 0 time to spend with her. still better then being single i guess

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

i know im taking this too far, and should accept the fact that right now we simply cant be together and its not worth it, mainly when she is 17. but i want my own teen. i want to model her into one perfect girl. older girls are nearly impossible to change.

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

coming here and being with her would mean at least 5 years of having no money to spend on my car. not just that, it might cost me my whole car. is THAT worth it? im changing my mind while typing this

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

BUT i dont really want to go to England. ppl are great and everything, but i will always be just a foreigner, somebody less important then them. and there will be always somebody who will be drunk enough to start screaming: get the f**k out of our country. already happened twice

[GTI2007]

It's your life so you will have to make up your mind about what you want to do with it yourself

[vw_krazy]

i know im taking this too far, and should accept the fact that right now we simply cant be together and its not worth it, mainly when she is 17. but i want my own teen. i want to model her into one perfect girl. older girls are nearly impossible to change.


You're messing with dangerous shit...

If she ever breaks away from the little "mold" you THINK you can create, it'll completely ruin your perception of her and your relationship.

You have her on a pedistal and she's only 17. She's got a lot of changing to do still, and if you fall for the person she is now, after a couple years you may look at her and see someone completely different.

Listen, you are clearly infatuated with her, its your first time, thats understandable. Making a rash life decision becuase of a teenager is not the best thing for you. She's not some "build" project you can have. How do you even know she will be ok with becoming what you want her to become. As much as you may feel for her, you need to begin applying a little more logic to your plans and things will become clearer.

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

i see your point and u are right. thats why i wrote it here, because clearly im not able to make such thoughts by myself right now. thank you, mate.
you slightly misunderstood the part about changing her, it wasnt about her personality or how she looks, but about what she likes to do when she is with bf. i met many messed up girls that had no luck with boys and met only real assholes, which led them to be very annoying and shy, even aggresive

[vw_krazy]

i see your point and u are right. thats why i wrote it here, because clearly im not able to make such thoughts by myself right now. thank you, mate.
you slightly misunderstood the part about changing her, it wasnt about her personality or how she looks, but about what she likes to do when she is with bf. i met many messed up girls that had no luck with boys and met only real assholes, which led them to be very annoying and shy, even aggresive


I see... my bad for misunderstanding that part. Anyways good luck with everything. I'm going through some rough times with a girl I've been dating for about 5 years which is why I replied in the first place.

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

i appreciate that, mate. ill try to give an example. this girl i started seeing, she had only 2 or 3 not serious relationships. one of them already f***ed up her idea of a boys behaviour, when he tried to get her in bed on their 3rd date. against her will. thank god she went home straight away. because of this, when i was with her in evening hours (ok something after 11pm) she was very nervous. she claimed she was afraid of some burglars or homeless ppl. but the next day she admitted that she was
afraid of me, that i might try something on her. i would never do that. not without her permission. im not saying i didnt want to, but i have some intelligence and i can control myself.

so ..
I do have some good skills in managing and planning stuff, and im pretty sure i could come out with good solution for everyone. but there is one last serious problem, my parents. there is no way they would let me live here on my own, they dont trust me at all. when i mentioned that i would like to come back after few months because im seeing someone and it looks serious, my mother argued with me for almost 4 days nonstop

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

And i must tell you that in my whole life, i never did anything stupid or iresponsible to lose their trust. well except wrecking my car. but i never got drunk, never tried drugs, never got in fight, never gambled, always been polite to everyone. and this is what i get in return.

[GTI2007]

You just try to protect her from meeting a wrong guy instead of yourself

[GodSquadMandrake]

Advancer never lose sight that there are PLENTY of fish in the sea. Generally the rule of the game is to never get caught up on one girl.
But it sounds like you are trying to take the daddy approach with this girl. It works, in some circumstances if she is looking for that and you are the right type of guy. Usually it requires that you are very dependable, honest, and have money. But it requires a lot of commitment and the attraction is not magnetic like the "bad boy" approach. Being a bad boy will get you laid and quickly, but isn't as stable.

I do share your frustration with her not trusting you or being afraid of you. I can relate to what you said about "but i never got drunk, never tried drugs, never got in fight, never gambled, always been polite to everyone. and this is what i get in return." But this is unfortunately how a man thinks, not a woman. Women are more about the feelings you can create for them. A total dirtbag can create feelings of attraction, trust and security and that's all it takes for some stupid girl to sleep with him. But if you don't have game like that it takes time to build trust. If you're taking the "daddy" approach it'll require that you prove to her that you're capable of being a provider and dependable before you can sleep with her. Actions speak louder than words and in this case there is nothing you can say to convince her of what you already know about yourself.

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

im amazed how much you ppl know. what you are saying sounds right. but im not and i'll never be a badboy. Thats what it is all about. It takes too much time for me to get inside some girls head and she starts to like me. i got nothing to offer, except for those things like honesty, security and other bs.
so if im understanding what you said correctly, right now i simply cant have a girl like that, because im too young and dont have my life set up. it makes sense, it makes too much sense and i know about that. i should stop bothering you with all that, its simply too complicated to get objective opinion on my own problem. at least i get to practice my english in here.

[GTI2007]

It got pretty quiet in here

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

i tried to to stop bothering you with my life so this is how it ended :smile: nothing to talk about

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

well, i passed my school leaving exams, im officialy out of school and unemployed atm...

[vw_krazy]

It did get quiet. Here I'll vent for a second about my year:

The bad: had a gun put to my back, had a bad fight with the guys with the gun (2 on 1 didn't work out too well for me), car was stolen by said scum bags (august 1st), following new years my grandfather passed away, had to fly to portugal Jan 2 for the funeral and spent some time in super shitty weather with no heating there, fell behind in school cause if the trip and almost failed a course. Oh ya and insurance gave me only 2.5k for my Nissan rip :(

The good: ended up pulling through and graduated. Been working 2 jobs to buy another car and have saved up a good amount, convocation is 8 days away (June 10), leaving for Montreal the day after our grad for F1 (Canadian gp bishes), and will probably be part of the mkv family if I end up getting a jetta soon.

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

hope everything works out as u want

[vw_krazy]

hope everything works out as u want

If that was to me, thanks! For a long while it seemed like everything wouldn't stop going downhill... But things are much better now. Really looking forward to f1 next weekend and then my first vw :D

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

yes that was to you. i know that feeling mate :smile:

[GTI2007]

I'm enjoying my few days off here with the good weather outside

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

well we dont have good weather at all, its raining for a month in a row now, half of country is flooded

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[GTI2007]

That's a lot of water

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

indeed that is. today was first hot day, took my car for a carwash and then waxed front part.

[GTI2007]

We had a pretty hot day here with temperatures up to 27 degrees

[GTI2007]

I enjoyed having dinner outside around 5 pm

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

lil' update on my screwed life. girl succesfully avoided me for almost a month. im leaving to UK on tuesday, so i called her if she wants to meet for one last time. that was on saturday, nothing interesting happened. but then she sent me a message she wants to meet again, on sunday. we've spent like 7 hours hugging on the lake near my town, on a boat. well not all the time, we went for a walk, and she kept holding my hand (she never done that before) really tight. she was cute. after that, i took her home, when we hugged for one last time and she kissed me. aaaaaawwwwwww.
Have you ever been in a situation, when something u always wanted was almost yours, and then it was taken away from u? thats what i feel right now.
I know it looks like shes just playing with me, but u should now her personaly to judge.
F**K YOU UNIVERSE :frown:

[s4mt3k]

:frown::frown::frown::frown:

[GTI2007]

Guess it's time for you to move on Boris. No matter if you want to or not

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

no its not time to move on. there is still a chance. im gonna do everything i can to get back to her, no matter what i lose in the process. even my car. that car was my worst decision EVER. and my father was stupid enough to let me buy it.
and u know what, lets ask other guys as well. im going to make a thread in OT and will see if im insane or not

[GTI2007]

It got pretty quiet in here with me too busy or too tired from working to come online in here regularly

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

yep, me too. been working for 10 hours per day, mostly afternoons. if u dont mind me telling you something: i realy badly wanted a job to stop thinking about my girl and relax. and u know what? when i came to my job i saw a girl that looked exactly like mine. but luckily i got a call from my old boss that he managed to make a spot for me if im still interested in my old job. so back are the times of doing nothing and being payed for it. not much, but enough... and life goes on

[GTI2007]

and what is the situation between you and that girl of yours now then?

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

the situation is like this: we are in touch, writing, texting, calling. the usual stuff. i just cant let it go. i want her badly. its already 2 weeks behind, 18 to go. and theres like 98% chance that i will have to sell my car if i dont find a sufficient job in Slovakia very quickly, which is not very easy task. its a challenge for me, and i love challenges. i believe i can do this , not just for her, but for myself as well. im going to bed now, ive worked till 22.00 today, im very tired. .

[GTI2007]

I wish you all the luck finding that job and a happy life with or even without that girl

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

thank you mate. i want to be on first plane back to home, im starting to feel very bad. actualy, im planning to do that in a month or so, for a few days at least. i need to see her. oh god

[GTI2007]

I know the feeling. I would also love to see my girl for real

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

its getting harder and harder. i cut off more then half of the time i was supposed to be here, planning to go home in september, but that is still not enough. its 30 degrees back home, she spends all her free time on local lake with her friends and other guys. and what is worse, i saw her picture from the beach, god she is perfect. i would kill to get to her right now. seriously, im loosing my mind. worst decision ever made. i wanna be with her so badly damn it........ :frown:

[GTI2007]

I seriously know the feeling. I also want to be with my girl but she's having a friend of her over while that girl her house is being rebuilt so I have nothing else to do then to wait until that rebuilt is done to be alone with my girl

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

yesterday i told my parents that im leaving in september, dad doesnt talk to me and mother keeps arguing with me.
on the other side, i checked used car sales and there is a chance i could sell mine for at least 10k, so hypotheticaly i could buy something else for around 7k and still get out of it pretty well.
right now she is waiting for me. but anything can happen. and with that body of hers, im actualy surprised that she is still free

[GTI2007]

It's your life and you are the one who needs to live it and your parents aren't seeming to want to let you go

[GTI2007]

It's got pretty hot here today with temperatures of 33 degrees and more

[Adv4nc3r_Mk5]

its 20 in here and quite windy. while my gf is having 33 degrees and enjoying lake with friends